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Attention people with vulvas, and those who love to please them: it’s time to learn about A-spot orgasms.  A very deep and pleasurable orgasm, A-spot O’s require a specific form of stimulation. Here’s what you need to know to experience one.  What is the A-spot? Another sensitive, sexual area on the inside of the vagina, just like the G-spot. Unlike the G-spot, the A-spot is located higher up inside.  The A-spot is about 4 inches inside the vagina on the […]

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Anal beads are having a moment. So, what’s all the hype about?  They’re a fun tool that can bring you oh so much pleasure, if you know how to use them properly. Consider this your user’s manual, where I break down instructions, and explain why you might like to try them. (Hint: orgasms.)  What are anal beads? A sex toy that features a line of bulbs, often with a small bulb on the very tip, and progressively larger bulbs as […]

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Sex toys are having a moment.  These days, it’s not uncommon to pluck one right off the shelf at your neighborhood drug store. But let’s face it: they’ve long been marketed to vulva owners…vulva owners who want to masturbate.  Which begs the question, how do you incorporate a toy into partnered sex? And why would you want to involve a toy in partnered sex? How To Bring It Up To Your Partner Some partners may be totally down for toy […]

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Ever felt the pressure to be amazing in bed?  Whatever “amazing” means to you… Whether that means staying hard, or looking hot, or feeling like you have to be the best they’ve ever had – we’ve all been there. But I’m here to tell you: this is performance anxiety. And it will absolutely get in the way of your pleasure.  What is performance anxiety? Most people use this phrase to describe the pressure penis owners feel to get erect and […]

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I have a “more is more” mentality around orgasm. You too? There are all kinds of documented health benefits that come with orgasm, like lower stress, better sleep, increased immunity, and get this…glowing skin. Maybe they’re born with it! Maybe they masturbate.  There are two ways to have many orgasms in a single session… Multiple orgasms: when orgasms happen one after the other.  Vulva owners have no refractory period (aka, necessary downtime between orgasms), and can experience these in quick […]

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Hey Dr. Emily, I’ve heard you mention penis rings before. I’m a guy just getting into toys and wearables for sex with my wife. But what IS a penis ring? I’ve Googled them and know what they look like, but why do people use them? Is it something I can wear during sex with my partner (female), or are they mostly an additive while I’m masturbating? Do you have any starter recommendations for us?  Thanks! Alex *      *  […]

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When I talk about anal play to people with penises, they are (for the most part) enthusiastic. But for people with a vulva, it’s a different story. If you were born with a penis, you’ve also got a prostate, and when pleasured with a toy…amazing orgasms occur. No matter your sexuality, prostate stimulation feels incredible – end of story. Tips on that below.  But for all my vulva owners, you might understandably have questions. Why stimulate my anus, when I […]

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In survey after survey, doggy style is rated as one of the favorite sex positions among hetero and queer couples. Often the favorite. It’s a wildly popular position that has the receiving partner propped up on their hands and knees (or elbows and knees) while the giving partner enters from behind. Why people love doggy style  Maybe you love this position because of its inherent power dynamics. The setup suggests that the giving partner is dominant, while the receiving partner […]

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Attention people with vulvas: there’s a new orgasm in town.  Just when you thought you had orgasms all figured out, along comes a toy genre designed to find all your secret, sexual nerve endings – and take them on a gorgeous ride.  First, let’s talk about where all those nerve endings are located: the clitoris. The clitoris is bigger than you think It’s relatively recent that female sexual pleasure (and the pleasure of anyone with a vulva) has been taken […]

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