If you’ve landed on this article, you’ve most likely received a sex toy that isn’t your perfect fit. It happens, especially since our physical needs and mental desires are so individual.
Read on for possible solutions for what to do if you don’t like your sex toy or it didn’t meet your expectations.
Check the Store’s Return or Exchange Policy
The first step in exploring your options is to look up the sex toy return policy and exchange policy.
If you’re wondering “Can you return a sex toy?” The short answer is that most companies do not accept returns because of hygiene reasons. It would be completely unethical to ever try to resell a used intimate item. That’s why so much research goes into the design of high-quality sex toys, but still, that doesn’t make them enjoyable for everyone.
Instead of exchanging a sex toy, many companies offer satisfaction guarantees or store credit to a different product that may be more suited towards your preferences that may not have been met with the original purchase.
Your best bet is to reach out to customer service to inquire about what options that offer to find the one that makes the most sense for your situation.
Troubleshooting the Toy
Some toys may seem defective but will work fine after a troubleshoot. If you don’t have the physical manual that came with the toy, you can most likely find it online on the brand’s product page under product details. Follow the instructions noted and explore different settings.
If a troubleshoot doesn’t work, try changing the batteries (if battery-operated) or charging the device overnight (if rechargeable) to ensure that’s not the problem. Take a second read through the manual to make sure you’re using it as intended as well.
If you’ve tried what you can to resolve the issue yourself and it’s still not working properly, reach out to customer care and let them know that you’ve already troubleshooted the device.
Repurposing the Toy
You can try using your toy in other ways if the first try didn’t go as expected. For example, if you’ve purchased a clitoral vibrator, you may enjoy using it to stimulate other erogenous zones like your nipples. You can also see if your partner is open to using it on them to add different types of stimulation.
You can also try using it in different ways, like different positions or paired with other toys you love, to see if it offers a pleasurable experience that way. Added lubrication can also change the way your sex toy feels during use by reducing friction and increasing comfort.
Selling or Donating Unused Toys
If you’ve received a toy and have decided not to use it before opening it, you can sell the item online on resale sites. Make sure to indicate that it is unopened and unused and you can use NWT (new with tag) in the posting title.
If you’ve opened your toy and simply know that it won’t serve you well without using it, you can also sell the item online. Make sure to note that it is opened but unused and encourage the recipient to wash it before use for extra measure.
If you have a friend that you think would be excited about the product, you can also ask them or even gift it to them.
How To Make a Better Choice Next Time
The best way to minimize the risk of not liking a sex toy is to go through the buying considerations beforehand – like deciding on stimulation types, material preferences and the factors that play into different budget tiers. Read our guide on “Choosing the Right Sex Toy”.
Beginner-friendly sex toys are a good place to start when exploring stimulation types. They’re typically simpler in design so you can decide if you like that type of sex toy first before investing in more advanced options with added features.
Another smart option is to reach out to customer service teams to ask for their toy recommendations based on your preferences. Remember, they receive messages from customers daily and have tons of feedback about what people love or haven’t loved based on their individual needs.
Conclusion
Don’t be discouraged just because a toy didn’t meet your expectations. Not all toys are created equally, and there are plenty of other options that may be more suited towards your needs. Now that you’ve eliminated an option, you’re one step closer to finding a product that’s perfect for you.
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