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Outside the Bedroom: 9 Ideas for Sex Around the House

While the colder seasons ahead might be squandering your opportunity to explore sex outdoors when you have a craving to try something new with your partner, it doesn’t mean you can’t get creative with your sex locations. A simple yet creative change in perception can provide a much-needed change in sexual scenery. No travel necessery.

Here are easy yet effective ideas for exploring sex outside of the bedroom so to help you fight winter scaries as the days get shorter and nights grow longer.

1. Sex in the Kitchen

Sex on the kitchen table? Been there, done that. Turning the entire cooking experience into a foreplay frenzy? Now we’re talking! Cook a meal together and escalate foreplay throughout the cooking process.

For instance, try to playfully and seductively distract one another while washing vegetables or mixing a sauce. Just like cooking, steadily progress until mealtime, when you’ll discover that two main courses are better than one.

2. Sex in the Bathroom

When it comes to bathroom sex, there’s endless opportunity both inside the shower and beyond. Utilize your bathroom’s ambient S&M offerings to your advantage. With help from some light bondage gear, tie your partner’s wrists to the towel rack or shower curtain rod. Alternatively, fasten your partner’s spread legs to the bottom drawer handles of the sink. To set the mood for your bondage-inspired encounter, close the door and fill the room with thick steam.

3. Sex in the Laundry Room

Next time you’re drying some clean clothes, prop yourself up on the dryer and invite your partner to come “help you with some wet clothes.” In addition to providing warmth to your bottom, the rumbling of the dryer will emit pleasurable vibrations. A perfect setup for a surprise frisky quickie with plenty of sex positions to explore while you’re at it. 

4. Sex in the Closet

If you’re lucky to have a spacious walk-in closet in your home, then you should definitely consider having sex inside it. It forces you to get close and intimate with your partner. All the clothes around you will give you a cozy, warm feel. You might try your favorite standing position, either back against the wall facing each other or back to your partner, with your chest pressed against the wall.  

Do you have a standing mirror in your closet? Even better. Consider having sex in front of the mirror so you can watch yourself getting railed by (or railing) your partner and accidentally catching each other’s gaze in the mirror, which will make the whole experience so much hotter.

5. Sex in the Living Room

The living room might be the comfiest room in your home (apart from your bedroom) to have sex in. You can settle comfortably on the couch and enjoy each other. All of your favorite sex positions work here: Missionary, Doggy, Cowgirl, Reverse Cowgirl, Spooning, and many more.

You can make the Cowgirl more interesting on the sofa by having the bottom partner sit down comfortably while the top partner straddles them. The top partner has much more control and comfort in this position as you can hold onto the arm of the sofa or the back of it for more stability.

If you want to infuse some powerplay, consider using sex positions where the bottom partner is pushed against the sofa or “thrown” over the side of it – either over the back of it or the side. In this position, the top partner can exert control by pushing down on the bottom partner’s back, head, or neck and pulling their hair.

As you can see, sex in the living room has much to offer for all couples with all sexual tastes. So, play around and see what works for you – there is enough to keep you busy for weeks!

6. Sex in the Foyer

Shed the R&R usually associated with sex for another: risk and rush. During sex, the adrenal glands release adrenaline, giving you a feeling of exhilaration. These same glands become active while trying to avoid getting caught doing something mischievous. For the ultimate rush, open the front door, grip the door frame, and have your partner enter you from behind, alternating glances from outside to your reflections in the glass door.

7. Sex in the Backyard (or Front Yard)

Do you live in a house with a backyard? Well, that means you have plenty of opportunities to have unforgettable, adventurous sex. As the weather gets colder, it might be harder to have sex outside without getting cold.

In the fall, if you have a backyard, you might want to build a tent and build a fort inside of it from warm blankets and pillows. The cozy, romantic atmosphere will be a great way to make a sleepover at your own home a totally new experience.

Alternatively, you might consider having sex in your car after dark. It’s the perfect outdoor/indoor experience, so you feel like you’re having sex in a public space somewhere outside while still being warm enough not to freeze during colder seasons. Consider roleplaying horny teenagers to reminisce on the good old days while you’re at it.

8. Sex in the Garage

You can say whatever you want, but there is something very hot about getting naughty with your partner in the dark and dirty garage. You might plan your sexual escapade in advance and set up a comfortable place in your garage to get down and dirty. Or, you might follow your partner into a garage one day and see if they’re in the mood to play on the spot.

If a sex dungeon has been a dream of yours, you might even turn your garage into your private sex dungeon for one day. Ropes, cuffs, and various garage tools can come in handy when it comes to playing your sex dungeon to life. Don’t be shy to get creative. Just make sure your partner is on board!

9. Bonus: Sex on the Stairs

While not technically a room, your home’s stairs provide a kinky way to step up your sexual prowess. Using handcuffs or ties, have your partner fasten your hands and legs to the banister or staircase railing. Next, have your partner place a remote control couple’s vibrator inside of you. Order your partner to sit across the room, playfully adjusting speeds and vibration patterns with the remote control. During long-distance foreplay, see who’s the first to beg for physical touch – you or your partner watching you submissively squirm.

Remember that a myriad of possibilities await once you start thinking outside of the bedroom. So, don’t be shy, and let your imagination run wild as you venture outside your sexual comfort zone. 

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