BDSM

BDSM can be broken down into three categories: bondage/discipline, dominance/submission and sadism/masochism. These terms may sound intimidating, but you’ve most likely already engaged in or desired some aspect of it. Discover more.

The Primal Fetish, Explained

Helena Lorimer·July 7, 2021

To be primal is connected to primal urges, such as protecting oneself or others from harm. It’s often used as...

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(GFD) Gentle FemDom: A Kink You Never Knew You Wanted?

Helena Lorimer·June 30, 2021

The images and ideas that are conjured up when thinking of BDSM and kink can sometimes be misleading or inaccurate. ...

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Are My Kinks/Fetishes Normal? Dr. Zhana

Dr. Zhana Vrangalova·June 18, 2021

Hi everyone, this is Dr. Zhana and it’s time to talk about kinks! I got some really good questions from you that I can’t wait to answer them! What is the shortest explanation for ‘kink’? It’s always good to start...

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Gentle Femdom: Female Dominants Unmask the Term

Domina Doll·June 8, 2021

When you conjure the word femdom, often the stereotypical vision of a strict sadistic dominant female wearing a latex corset,...

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Rough Sex—Why Do We Crave It?

Karolina Wilde and Dr. Laurie Mintz·June 3, 2021

Sex is one of the best ways to build intimacy and connect with your partner. When you’re both naked,...

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What Is “Sub Drop”? And How To Deal with It?

Colin Hanna·May 11, 2021

Have you ever experienced an emotional or physical high so great that it made coming back to the real world seem difficult? Some people with experience using drugs can attest to it, as it causes a rush of serotonin or...

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Get Cuffed Up! Incorporating Handcuffs in Your Sex Life

Colin Hanna·January 8, 2021

There’s just something about restraint that’s so damn sexy. It’s a tantalizing proposition; being presented with pleasures right in front...

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What (and Why) Are Cock Cages?

Colin Hanna·December 19, 2020

Male chastity—the act of men avoiding or inhibiting their sexual desires—is a huge turn-on for guys seeking submission or building...

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Coming Down: Why Do Some Doms Experience Top Drop? And How Can Their Subs Support Them?

Helena Lorimer·November 1, 2020

Think about a time when you experienced a huge rush of positive and exciting emotions, like riding a roller coaster or finally standing up for yourself in an argument. These experiences often create an intense whirlwind of feelings that make...

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