BDSM

BDSM can be broken down into three categories: bondage/discipline, dominance/submission and sadism/masochism. These terms may sound intimidating, but you’ve most likely already engaged in or desired some aspect of it. Discover more.

A Basic Introduction: What Does ‘BDSM’ Mean?

Helena Lorimer·November 26, 2021

There are more than a handful of articles on Volonté regarding different aspects of BDSM. But before you start reading...

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LELO Podcast: The World of BDSM

Donna Turner·November 25, 2021

In this episode, we are going deep into a powerful conversation about bedroom habits from the other side of the...

1 min read

Simply the Breast! Engaging in Safe and Erotic Breast Bondage

Helena Lorimer·October 24, 2021

Did you know that the breasts, or more specifically, the nipples, are a huge erogenous zone? In fact, embracing the nipples activates the same part of the brain as when the vagina, clitoris, and cervix is stimulated. With this information,...

4 mins read

High Protocol, You Either Love it or You Don’t!

Helena Lorimer·October 18, 2021

Are you a stickler for the rules? And when someone of authority commands something of you, what’s your reaction? Well,...

3 mins read

Succumbing to the Lifestyle of Total Power Exchange (TPE)

Helena Lorimer·October 12, 2021

For some, giving up all control sounds like a nightmare. For others, it’s the ultimate form of freedom. So when...

4 mins read

“Yes, Mistress!” The Mistress-Slave Relationship, Explained

Helena Lorimer·October 4, 2021

The majority of us have grown up in a world with imposed rules and regulations. And by following said-rules, we’re being respectful towards authoritative figures, institutions, and each other. The term ‘Mistress’ in the BDSM community is oddly similar… but...

4 mins read

A Closer Look at Shibari, or Japanese Rope Bondage

Colin Hanna·October 2, 2021

As a reader of this blog and someone who is obviously curious about the world of sex beyond just what...

3 mins read

Private & Professional BDSM Dungeons for Limitless Lust

Helena Lorimer·September 24, 2021

You’re picturing the ‘Red Room’ from 50 Shades of Grey, aren’t you? And essentially, that is what a BDSM dungeon...

4 mins read

A Starter Guide: What is a BDSM Scene?

Helena Lorimer·September 22, 2021

So, you’re on a journey, learning the BDSM lingo and educating yourself about the different aspects of BDSM life. How fun! We love teaching and empowering our gorgeous readers so that they can live their best and most authentic sex...

5 mins read

Breathing Down Someone’s Neck… in a Good Way! The Neck Fetish, Explained

Helena Lorimer·September 19, 2021

There are a number of different things that can float one’s boat. We may not always find it arousing ourselves,...

4 mins read

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