Shopping for romantic gifts for him? It can sometimes be a headache figuring out what he wants — after all, you’re not a mind reader! Ties and watches are often a go-to, but why not choose something more intimate? Discover our best romantic gifts for him, ranging from cozy and sensual to straight-up naughty picks.
1. Give Him an Erotic Massage
While going to a spa and getting a couples massage is one of the most popular romantic gift ideas for him, it’s much more intimate to create a DIY spa experience at home. Put on a sexy playlist to get in the mood and light some candles – better yet a massage candle that turns the melted wax into something you can drip and lather onto your lover.
Bring him into the room where you’ve set up the massage. You don’t need to heat the oil in your hands—the candle, available in three scents, will melt in a warm and luxurious shea butter and apricot kernel oil. Start with more PG areas, like the back and legs, before flipping him over for a happy ending.
2. Put On a Show
Play dress up with some sexy lingerie, or if you’re feeling a little daring, this is one of the best romantic gifts for the two of you to explore role-play and power dynamics.
Take things beyond a teddy or a bra and crotchless panties with a costume. Dress up as a sexy maid, cheerleader, or student costume, and have your partner act as a demanding boss, coach, or teacher who needs to discipline you. This is a safe space to spice up a regular routine and try out kinky fantasies without judgment.
3. Take a Steamy Bath Together
Just like with an erotic massage, ambiance is essential here, so get the candles and music ready! Perhaps set up a charcuterie tray or some chocolate-covered strawberries nearby along with his favorite beverage, whether it’s some champagne, wine, beer, or even a mocktail. Maybe discover some foods that work well with foreplay.
Fill the bath up with some silky bubbles or a bath bomb and maybe a trail of rose petals leading to the tub. There are also rose petal soaps that you can put directly in the bath. Once you’re both in the bath and the drinks are flowing, don’t be afraid to let those hands roam. Waterproof sex toys also welcome.
4. Put a (Penis) Ring On It
A penis ring is one of the best sex toys for couples because the targeted vibrations stimulate the clitoris. For men, the ring provides a longer, harder erection with the added sensation of vibration. Vibrating penis rings like TOR 3 ensure mutual satisfaction (and simultaneous orgasms).
But you can use it for more than penetration. First, apply plenty of water-based lube. Then, place it on the base of the penis and stroke the shaft slowly. If you want to take things up a notch, use a CBD Oral Sex Gel and give him a gift he’ll never forget.
5. Gift Him a Male Sex Toy
Sometimes, the best romantic gifts for him are ones with an X-rated twist. Lucky for you, there are many types of sex toys for men. A penis ring can enhance partnered sex, and he can certainly wear it while masturbating or having sex, but what is the best sex toy for men to use during a solo self-care session or foreplay?
A male stroker can take things to the next level, and this is one of the best naughty gifts for him. Sex toys for men like F1S V3 can mimic a realistic feeling of oral sex and penetration. If your guy has expressed an interest in prostate play, give him the P-spot orgasm of a lifetime with a male vibrator like Loki or Hugo.
6. Take a Sexy Staycation
Rent a hotel room so you can be waited on hand and foot while indulging in each other’s bodies – without leaving town. Travel can be stressful, and this gives you all the perks without the added pressure of leaving town.
Hotel sex is undeniably great, but if you really want to focus on each other with maximum privacy) and a full kitchen to cook an aphrodisiac-filled meal) rent a luxurious Airbnb or cottage.
7. Make Him a Book of Kinky Coupons
These coupons are highly customizable and can range from sweet and romantic to absolutely filthy. Whether you want to include blush-inducing sex acts (the ultimate gift to give alongside a male sex toy), a coupon for a massage, a fancy date night, or a picnic, the options are endless.
Since you really know your guy, this is the perfect chance to customize your coupon book to his interests, fantasies, or both.
8. Plan a Date Night with Erotic Games
Put on a slinky dress, cook your partner their favorite meal, and finish off date night with a game of strip poker or sex games. There are tons of sex games for couples, like Kinky Truth or Dare, card games, or naughty dice that give instructions on which body parts to focus on – and what to do with them.
There are even board games that will help you get to know each other better and strengthen your bond, making this one of the most romantic gifts for him. It will boost your sense of adventure as a couple and strengthen your bond. There are even adult coloring books that you can color in together – they can inspire new positions in the bedroom and creative ways to use sex toys together.
9. Do a Boudoir Photoshoot
Hire a photographer (yes, some specialize in boudoir photography) to capture you wearing spicy looks (once again, a great opportunity to try on lingerie that revs his engine) and frame the stunning photos. You won’t regret the decision when you see the look on his face as he unwraps it!
However, if you want more of a couples experience, you can gift them a photo shoot with a professional boudoir photographer so you can cherish those memories (and images) forever.
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