Have you tried masturbating together with your partner? While many only consider self-pleasure as a solo adventure, mutual masturbation is a fairly common sexual practice amongst couples. Even 50% of couples engage in mutual masturbation, and for a good reason – those couples who engage in mutual masturbation report better sexual satisfaction than those who don’t.
Discover more about mutual masturbation, why you might want to try it, and the best sex toys to help you enhance the experience.
What Is Mutual Masturbation?
Mutual masturbation is a sexual activity when two or more partners masturbate together or masturbate each other. You can use your hands, toys, or both.
The Appeal of Mutual Masturbation
There are many reasons why mutual masturbation might be arousing. First, it allows couples to explore sex beyond intercourse. Not everything has to be penetration-centered in heterosexual relationships, and by masturbating together, couples can learn new ways to experience pleasure.
The second benefit of mutual masturbation is that it can allow partners to show each other how they like to be pleasured. It gives a visual or hands-on approach to better understanding what someone does or doesn’t like.
Lastly, mutual masturbation allows couples to explore voyeurism and exhibitionism in a pressure-free, safe environment. If you’re into voyeurism, then watching your partner masturbate can be arousing, and if you’re into exhibitionism, having your partner watch you can also be pleasurable.
7 Best Sex Toys To Enhance Mutual Masturbation
While a mutual masturbation session can feel great and be fun without sex toys, adding a toy into the mix can really elevate the experience and bring some novelty into your routine. So, here are seven sex toys that can complement any mutual masturbation session:
DOT
DOT is a very unique and innovative clitoral vibrator. The small pinpoint tip offers precise stimulation that blows your mind without numbing the clitoris area like some other vibrators do. Why does it matter? DOT can allow you to experience multiple orgasms during a masturbation session while your partner watches.
Plus, the unique design of the vibrator allows you to play around and even use the vibe on your partner–there are no rules for sex toys when it comes to gender, so play around and find what feels best.
TOR 3
TOR 3 is a premium cock ring designed to enhance solo and partnered play. It’s waterproof, so you can use it even in the shower, and has eight different vibration patterns.
TOR 3 can be a great addition to a mutual masturbation session because it makes your erections harder, stronger and last longer. Not only will the pleasure be more intense, but you’ll also be able to have a longer session to enjoy watching your partner.
It’s also a great tool to explore edging, or intentionally delaying an orgasm to increase pleasure. Make it a game in which partner can edge longer before reaching an orgasm. TOR 3 is app-controlled, so your partner can control your vibrations as they watch you.
Smart Wand 2
Smart Wand 2 is the ultimate wand vibrator that can be used by you or your partner during a mutual masturbation session. The ergonomic design makes it easy to hold against either of your bodies during erotic play. The vibrations are powerful, and the battery is long-lasting, so you can take your time exploring different erogenous zones.
SORAYA Beads
SORAYA Beads is a unique and luxurious anal toy that is the perfect vibrator to enhance mutual masturbation if you’re looking to incorporate anal stimulation. The toy’s unique cascading design arouses the sensitive nerves in and around the anus, while the Bow-Motion technology creates a thrusting-like sensation.
SORAYA Beads can be enjoyed by men and women alike. Because of its design, it can reach the P-spot in men and the A-spot in women, which makes it a versatile toy for couples who love sex accessories.
IDA Wave
IDA Wave is an app-controlled dual vibrator designed to take solo pleasure to new heights. It has two powerful motors which simultaneously stimulate the G-spot and clitoris.
Because IDA Wave is wearable, it can be enjoyed hands-free and even be worn during penetrative sex. It’s also app-controlled, giving your partner control of your toy. They can take charge and set the intensity and patterns of the vibrator while you use it, which can add an extra layer of fun to any mutual masturbation session.
SIRI 3
SIRI 3 is a unique clitoral stimulator that’s compact in size and sound-activated. You can even sync the vibrations to your favorite naughty playlist.
Making sex playlists can be a fun way to elevate partnered play. SIRI 3 makes it even more fun because you and your partner can choose songs specifically for mutual masturbation.
SIRI 3 is LELO’s smallest vibrator, so small that it can even sit inside your panties if you want to take your masturbation on-the-go.
F1S V2
F1S V2 is a male masturbator designed for those looking to enhance their masturbation sessions or improve their stamina. Use the original vibration settings or connect to the app and develop your own masturbation routine.
Give your partner your phone and they can change the speed and intensity for you. Take it a step further with vibrator punishment to explore a power play dynamic.
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