How To Choose the Best Long-Distance Vibrator

We live in a world where travel is increasingly part of our reality. Whether it’s for study or for work experience, being away from home, often very far away, is no longer an exception. But luckily, modern technologies that allow us to talk and see each other at practically zero cost have shortened distances and made this a smaller world. For this reason, distance is no longer such a determining factor within a relationship. And yet, living at a distance when our greatest desire would be to be together all the time is certainly not a good thing. Especially when it comes to intimacy and desire.

And yet, technology comes to our aid in this case too. Not only can we share hours of phone calls, even erotic ones, with our partner, not only can we communicate in real time, send messages, images, videos, but we can also physically ‘touch’ his/her body through a remote-controlled sex toy.

What Are Long-Distance Vibrators?

A long distance vibrator can be controlled at a distance via a remote control and is limited to a few feet. Then there are long distance sex toys that can connect, via Bluetooth, to a phone that turns into a remote control in all respects via a dedicated app.

In this case, it’s possible to control a sex toys even from a different continent. All you need to do is connect the device to the phone, via Bluetooth, connect the phones of the two partners (each manufacturer uses a different technology) and voilà, that’s it: the partner who is in Europe will be able to manage the functioning of the vibrator of the partner who is in America. Something that, if you think about it, has the flavor of science fiction.

Key Features To Look for in a Long-Distance Vibrator

Connectivity: the functioning of these sex toys usually involves an application that allows you to connect the sex toy to your phone. Which is, of course, the first step to being able to adjust it remotely and via another phone. It is therefore important that the app is compatible with as many phones as possible. Some manufacturers use Wi-Fi to connect the device to the phone, others Bluetooth. Both have, as always, their advantages and disadvantages: Bluetooth requires that the device and phone are close together and, let’s face it, if something goes wrong, that is, the two devices do not connect, few of us would know how to fix it. The Wi-Fi connection works as long as we are dealing with reliable Wi-Fi. Which is a kind of oxymoron.
Range: when it comes to choosing a remote-control sex toy, it is obviously important to choose a model that has a good range. The wider the range, the more space you can give to your imagination.
Battery life: in any erotic game involving a sex toy, battery life is essential: no one wants to be interrupted because the sex toy has run out of battery, nor wants to wait while their device recharges.
Material safety: this is an aspect that applies to any sex toy, every time you choose an object that comes in contact with your most delicate parts and, often, is intended to be inserted in the body, it is essential that you choose objects made with the highest quality materials, hypoallergenic and safe for the body: silicone, ABS plastic, glass, steel. Choose non-porous, easy to clean, safe materials.
The ability to customize the experience: the more modes and intensity of vibration are available, the more likely it is that you will find the perfect one for you. Not only that, an object that offers you the possibility to customize it as much as possible so that it meets your needs, it’s a testament of an attitude of attention to the user and their needs.

Best Long-Distance Vibrators and Sex Toys

If you are looking for a sex toy to use in long distance relationships, here is a list of the best remote control sex toys.

A category of sex toys that give their best when controlled remotely are masturbators: cylinders in which he can insert the penis that is stimulated in the most varied ways. Being able to regulate them remotely makes the illusion of being together even more intense. But there are also vibrators for the G-spot that can be controlled remotely. A penis ring is a sex toy designed to be used in couples but it’s very enjoyable also while alone. The vibration stimulates the man in his erogenous zone and she (he) can control it from afar.

F1S V3 is a male masturbator that stimulates the penis with sonic waves from all sides and uses an interactive AI mode to respond to the users’ movements. All of this while the penis is immersed in auto adjusted liquid silicone ribs. It’s on the high end of the price spectrum but it’s worth every cent. It connects via an app to the phone and can be managed from another room, city, state or continent.

The same can be said about LIV 3, a mid-price range, mid-sized G-spot vibrator that ‘s been on the market for a while, as a testament of the effective simplicity of its functioning. While on the higher end of the G-spot spectrum we find ENIGMA Double Sonic, an app controlled vibrator that, thanks to a sonic pad, is able to reach the elusive A spot.

Made with super soft silicone, designed with a very unique shape, this toy combines the action of a clit sucker, a rabbit vibrator and an A spot stimulator. Aaand, you can control it remotely. With all of these toys, you just need to connect both to a dedicated app, enter a private chat room and communicate with the words and the shivers of pleasure that one of the two partners decides for the partner who’s using them.

How To Use a Long-Distance Vibrator Effectively

In order for a vibrator to be controlled remotely, it must first be connected, via Bluetooth or Wi-Fi, to the dedicated application on the phone of the same person who wants to use the vibrator. The applications, of course, vary from brand to brand, but the common idea is that this allows the two phones to communicate with each other. In this way, one person can manage the controls on the sex toy that the other person uses, via their phone and at great distance.

Of course, the limit to using a sex toy remotely is, as they say, your imagination. But, if you need them, we give you some ideas on how to incorporate this super exciting new technology into your love life. First of all, it should be said that, obviously, you don’t have to be in two different states or cities to be able to enjoy it. Simply put, do you have a dinner date?

Your foreplay can start much earlier, when you, if you are a woman, can wear a discreet sex toy for couples like TIANI Harmony while he controls it, perhaps from the office, while finishing the last tasks of the day. Otherwise, he could play with a masturbator like F1S V3, which you control, while you could play with LIV 3 that he controls. You could also imagine using them as a real extension of each other’s body.

And finally, another very spicy situation is when you video call each other and only your faces are visible, then one of the two partners starts to use a sex toy while the other controls it, seeing the expressions of pleasure on the partner’s face will be one of the most exciting things you can imagine.

When internet communication is involved, privacy is the first concern you should have, especially if the person with whom you engage in erotic video calls and games is not (yet) a person you can blindly trust. But, even if they were, remember that no one is immune from data loss or piracy. This is why our suggestion is to never show your face and make yourself as unrecognizable as possible.

Sensuality, especially remote sensuality, does not need to show what, at least for the moment, cannot be touched. It is much better to use facial expressions or sound to demonstrate our full involvement. Which, despite the miles that separate us, should be great.

Alternative Long-Distance Intimacy Tools

Other sex toys for long distance play are stroking devices and interactive toys.

While remote controlled sex toys are a great way to share intimacy while apart, they’re not the only way, of course. The usual, old fashioned phone call that suddenly takes a sexy turn, without sex toy, without video communication, is as good a tool to share your desire with your partner as those we considered so far. And do not underestimate the power of micromessaging him or her with your naughty thoughts.

Also, rediscover the power of sexy pics, but we’re not talking about nudes here: in the morning, put on the bed the sexy lingerie you’re going to wear (or maybe you pretend you’re going to wear), take a pic and send it to him. Take a photo of your hand holding a tube of whipped cream and send it to her, writing with a great deal of details where, in her body, you’d spread it and how you’d clean it.

Read an erotic book together, watch a porn together. Book a flight to go and see your love.

Conclusion

Keeping each other close, even when you’re apart, is vital for your relationship, not only because, otherwise, you create a void that, sooner or later, someone else will fill, but also because your relationship needs to keep growing, even through separation.

Technology has many drawbacks for intimacy, it often creates a distance between two people on a couch and, more and more, absorbs our attention. But when you’re apart, technology is your best ally. Use it wisely to keep close to your partner and explore new ways of connecting with each other.

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