We live in a time where it’s normal to share parts of our daily lives, including purchases, with the whole world. And yet, when it comes to sex, confidentiality and privacy remain a fundamental value – one of the main reasons why we love quiet sex toys.
Moments of intimacy and pleasure should be distractless, even more so if you live with others, whether they’re roommates, parents, spouses (or, even worse, children). Also in not-so-private places like hotel rooms and guest rooms. When we carve out our moment of privacy, privacy, in fact, is what we want.
What Makes a Sex Toy Discreet?
Let’s take a closer look at the characteristics that make a sex toy a discreet sex toy, and not just the fact that it’s quiet.
The first thing to consider when you’re looking for a quiet sex toy is, of course, the toy itself. You can choose a dildo, for example, that doesn’t have a motor and does not produce any noise. But if it’s a quiet vibrator that you’re looking for, there are a few things to consider.
First of all, a small sex toy is generally quieter than a large one, but this is not always true. To have a truly quiet object, it is important that the size of the sex toy is commensurate with its power: the smaller and more powerful a sex toy is, the more likely it will also be noisy.
Another factor to take into consideration is the materials: soft and smooth coverings will make the quietest vibrator. Speaking of general quality, rechargeable toys often require better technology and are quieter overall. Low-end toys actually tend to get noisier with use.
Finally, in general, the simplicity of operation will contribute to a quiet performance. The more complex a sex toy is with extra functions and exposed moving parts, the higher the risk that it will be noisy.
But when we talk about discretion, we are not just talking about noise. The discretion of an erotic object is also related to its size and, even more so, by its shape.
Small sex toys are easy to hide but sometimes have an unconventional design that makes you think of everything except sex. There are clear exceptions to this though – sex toys with stems (often called massage wands) are generally large and very powerful, yet there are some that are very discreet. Not only because their shape isn’t traditionally phallic and is designed for all-over body use, but also because their sturdy “body” absorbs noise.
Features to Look for in a Silent Vibrator
If the manufacturer is a serious one, they will indicate the noise level of a sex toy among its features. Reputable brands receive the most feedback from customers and they understand that noise level is one of the most important factors.
Sometimes, however, noise level information may not be enough. Always take into account the characteristics of the space in which you’ll be using it – the same vibrator can sound different in a house with good insulation compared to an apartment with thin walls. If you shop in person, ask to hear how the sex toy sounds once turned on, and if you buy online, read the reviews about noise level.
Objects coated in silicone tend to be less noisy than those coated in hard materials because silicone tends to absorb noise. Equally important is the quality of the manufacturing to guarantee you a performance that lasts over time. If you don’t have the means to really invest in a toy, there is a good chance that your purchase will become noisier over time.
The manufacturing of the “engine” also plays a major role in the noise level of the object. If the manufacturer does not indicate noise level among the characteristics of the object, there is a good chance that it is a detail that has not been considered in design either. Rechargeable motors tend to be quieter for two reasons: the vibrations are usualy deeper and less buzzy than those of battery-powered sex toys, and higher quality sex toys (usually rechargeable) are designed with more attention to detail.
Another feature to consider when looking for the best quiet vibrator is the ability to vary the intensity and modes of the vibrations. This way, even if a mode is too loud for the environment you’re in, you can always lower the intensity or change the mode to find a quieter one.
Best Silent Vibrators and Discreet Sex Toys
While we can’t list ever discreet sex toy on the market, we’ve highlighted a select few that are quieter and more low-key due to their characteristics.
Small sex toys that are simple in design and made from high quality finishes and vibration technologies are a safer bet for reducing noise.
Sex toys for internal use, such as G-spot vibrators or bullet vibrators, tend to be quieter than sex toys of a similar size because your body creates a barrier between the noise.
Magic wands can be much quieter than expected since they compensate the power of the motor with an equally powerful body.
Price is also one of the first factors to look at: a cheap sex toy will very rarely be quiet, so, if you want to save money, choose rechargeable silicone models in smaller designs. They should be less expensive than larger toys but equally as effective (and quieter). The bigger a sex toy is, the more important it is that it’s higher higher quality in order to remain quiet.
If you love internal stimulation, choose a model covered in silicone with a rechargeable battery. Same thing if you love anal stimulation: choose premium models with a flared base (always!).
If you’re looking for a couples’ sex toy, a silicone penis ring is generally silent because its vibrations are muffled between both partners’ bodies.
Tips for Using Sex Toys Quietly
Even if your device isn’t the quietest on the market, you can still reduce noise during use with this tricks:
Choose the mode and intensity that is right for the moment and the situation.
If you’re in an environment that does not guarantee you privacy, choose a lower intensity and a slower mode.
If you’re in a shared environment, you can help mask noise with other noise.
In summer, you can turn on a fan or an air conditioner. If you’re in the bathroom, you can run the water. Go a step further and avoid wasting water with a waterproof sex toy that can be used in the tub or shower. Put on background music and turn up the volume enough to drown out the sound and not disturb your roommates.
Additional ways to reduce the noise of sex toys include using then under the covers or using them “face down” so that they are inserted between your body and mattress.
Find out when you’ll be home alone.
During the night, even while others are sleeping, the absence of external noise can make the low noise from your toys seem louder, and worse, make you less comfortable with enjoying them. The prime times to be private about your pleasure are usually during the day when no one else is home. Even better if there are external sounds, like traffic or appliances, that can put your mind at ease with any noise you’re producing.
Additional Discreet Sex Toy Options
Here are some sex toys that guarantee you excitement and privacy.
- Remote-controlled sex toys are often used for public play where the audience is unaware. One of the two partners wears the sex toy while the other handles the remote control, adjusting the intensity of the vibrations. One of the most exciting erotic games ever that, before the invention of remote-controlled sex toys, was simply unimaginable.
- Wearable sex toys are as effective as they are discreet. No one will know that you are wearing it and the noise is usually completely masked by your body.
- Small and ‘travel’ sex toys are discreet not only in their performance, but also for their size and shape, usually fitting in your pocket without anyone batting an eye.
Conclusion
The best discreet sex toys are small, quality, silicone, rechargeable, simple, wearable sex toys.
When you have to make a choice, always consider the features that are most important to you, do you prefer power or discretion? If you find yourself living in a crowded situation, prefer small sex toys or powerful but high-end sex toys.
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