What’s the relationship between your favorite vibrator and your boyfriend – do they politely ignore each other, or are they partners in crime while providing you pleasure?
One way to spice things up and deepen the relationship between your boyfriend and your vibrator is by using your vibrator on him. Roles reversed.
Why Use Sex Toys On Your Boyfriend?
One reason why you might want to use your vibe on your boyfriend is that sex toys can enhance pleasure during sex, for men too. Vibrators add extra stimulation, and they feel nice not only in the intimate areas, but all over the body. They are designed to elevate arousal.
Also, incorporating new toys is something new and exciting. It’s a way to add more novelty to your sex life and maintain desire in long-term relationships.
5 Ways To Use a Vibrator On Your Boyfriend
While we tend to use our sex toys in the same way most of the time, they’re actually quite versatile and can enhance pleasure in a variety of ways. Find a way that works for you and your partner best.
Give Him a Full-Body Massage
Using vibrators doesn’t have to mean penetration. Giving your partner an erotic massage is a great tool for foreplay, especially when it comes to male erogenous zones, like the:
- Ears
- Neck
- Chest
- Inner thighs
- Armpits
- Wrists
- Behind the knees
Start by massaging those erogenous zones with your hands first. Run your fingertips over the areas and ask your partner which areas feel the best. Remember, we are all different, so what feels good for you might not feel good for your boyfriend. Follow his lead.
Once you explored the erogenous zones with your hands, begin exploring the same areas with your vibrator. The vibrations add sensations that penetrate past the surface of the skin. Make sure you take your time and tease your partner to build playful sexual tension.
Bring the Vibrator Into the Shower
Many couples enjoy showering together, whether because it’s convenient or because it can be intimate and arousing to be together in a small proximity. If it’s the latter, try bringing your (waterproof) sex toy into the shower and switch off externally stimulating one another. If it leads to internal stimulation, even better, but make sure to clean it between orifices.
The sound of the running water can be great to draw out the sound of the vibe if that’s something your partner finds problematic. Also, you can get as dirty as you want in the shower –the cleanup is super easy!
Enhance Oral Sex
If your partner enjoys oral sex and is open to incorporating toys, try using your vibrator on his perineum, or the area between the balls and anus. The perineum is highly sensitive and when stimulated, can even reach the prostate (aka male G-spot) from the outside.
This combined stimulation can even bring some men to full-body orgasms that are even more pleasurable than penis-only orgasms.
Enhance Handjobs
If you want to start more mild, try incorporating a vibrator with a handjob. Using the same concept as above, you can stimulate the perineum with the vibrator while stimulating the shaft and head of the penis with your hand.
Some men enjoy ball stimulation. If your boyfriend is one of those people, then consider holding the vibrator not only on the perineum, but also against the scrotum to enhance sensations.
Massage Their Prostate
We don’t recommend jumpting straight into anal penetration, but if you’ve explored the other options and your partner is open to it, anal massages can heighten sex for everyone involved.
The tissue around the anus is full of nerve endings and is sensitive to arousal. Lube up the vibrator and hold it against the outside of the anus first while playing around with different vibration patterns and intensities.
If your boyfriend is enjoying it, you can move into slight penetration. Insert just the tip and hold it their for a few mintues before going slightly deeper. This allows the anus to relax and allow for deeper penetration.
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