Position Difficulty: 3.5/5
Pros
Straddling your partner’s face for to receive cunnilingus is one of the best oral sex positions, so why not return the favor?
The best thing about this blow job position is that depending on the size of your partner, they can move their body upward and downward along yours to adjust the type of attention they’re receiving. If they’re closer to your chest, they can (gently) thrust into your mouth, or they can sit closer to your chin as you explore the base of their shaft and testicles. May we also suggest incorporating rimming?
Cons
As this position is most comfortable with your arms and hands under and behind the partner on top, which means that the receiver is going to control a lot of the movements. This means they will have to be very mindful that they don’t get too excited and thrust too vigorously; we suggest using a ‘tap-out’ signal as obviously you won’t be able to say a safe word!
For increased comfort, you may also want to use a firm cushion against the head board to help support your neck while performing the full frontal. You can also use the arm of a couch, but watch your partner’s knee doesn’t slip between the cushions suddenly!
Those receiving should lend a helping hand when guiding themselves into their partner’s mouth, and don’t be afraid to use the other to reach back and offer them some reciprocal pleasure if you can reach!